HEY RYLA: I understand that not taken care of, this problem can result in one or both horses getting hurt—as well as yourself. First, please understand that what Koda and Eddie are going through is absolutely normal and natural. This kind of thing happens with horses all the time.
Having said that, the moment you bring a horse from a “wild environment” to the “stable environment”, the rules of survival change. Because you, the caretaker, are now in the mix, the horse’s role needs to change. You have a role in this—it’s your responsibility to help him realize he needs to act diﬀerently than the way he feels he should since he doesn’t need to ﬁght for food and water anymore. Here are 10 easy steps:
1. Begin by separating your horses.
2. Enter Koda’s pen and make sure you can move her around and away from you by simply kissing her oﬀ. If she doesn’t move away quickly and willingly, then chase her oﬀ while spanking the ground ﬁrst and her second—until she gets the idea. You should be able to kiss her oﬀ without any second thoughts on her part before moving on to the next step. How assertive you will need to be will depend on how quickly she responds.
3. Repeat Step 2, except with food in her stall. Allow her to focus on her eating before chasing her oﬀ . Repeat this process until it’s easy for Koda to leave her food instantly.
4. Repeat Steps 1, 2, and 3, with Eddie. Even though Eddie is the one that was being chased, we want to make sure that he runs away instead of holding his ground and getting kicked. Both horses need to learn how to go to their respective corners after the bell.
5. Place each horse in adjoining stalls. It’s important that they have a common divider between them. If this is not available, simply place one horse in the stall (preferably the aggressive one)and place the other outside. Get a 25-foot rope (or longer) and run it around a post of the panel outside the stall and to Eddie’s halter. You are going to need to be able to draw Eddie in close to the panel as well as allow him to retreat when necessary.
6. It’s now time to throw a ﬂake of hay into the stall where the aggressive horse, Koda, is stabled. It is important that the ﬂake is strategically placed directly below the post that we are using as a pulley, where the rope was threaded through. Have a helper draw the horse outside the pen (Eddie), close up to the divider the moment Koda is deep into her meal. It is important, Ryla, that you are timely with your warning (kissing) as well as your consequence the moment any signs of negative behavior appear. Take care not to get kicked.
7. This step is key to the success of this exercise. Remember, we are looking for an excuse to reward—not to punish. Chasing oﬀ your horse is a rewardable exercise, not punishment. Your intention and body language should express exactly that. More importantly, any negative expression on the part of Koda should be perceived as her own cute little way of asking you to please chase her oﬀ (HARD) and tell her she is a good girl. This will only preserve the positive relationship between you two and will teach her to think as opposed to react.
8. You can now have your horses switch places and start all over again.
9. This next step is the moment of truth. It all comes down to a judgment call—yours. Testing the lesson without the divider will require you to feed your horses on opposite ends of the pen. If all goes well, move the two portions of food closer and closer together until something changes. Continue this process until there is no issue.
10. This last step is what will guarantee that your horses will do the right thing even when you are not there, because they think you are.
As soon as you feed them, walk away around a corner where you can’t be seen and sneak a peek and listen. The ﬁ rst excuse they give you to reward them, do so by kissing loudly before you come around the corner. This allows the horse to hold that thought until you get there. This helps them put 2 and 2 together. Continue this until you think they’ve got it.
Ryla, you may want to practice feeding Koda and Eddie on opposite ends of the pen when you can’t be there to supervise, at least for a while.
Horsetrader columnist Ray Ariss, husband to Pippa Ariss and father of six, shares his insight into the relationship of horse-and-human each month, in print and on www.horsetrader.com.